In his book, Life is in the Transitions, Brian Feiler, talks about the three stages of any transition; the long good bye, the messy middle, and new beginnings.
It doesn't matter where you are in the stages, it just matters that you know where you are.. It's like looking for directions at the mall to your favorite store; you find the store and then look for the "you are here" marker. Knowing where you are allows you to create a plan. With a plan comes clarity.
Have some fun with this. Figure out where you are in the process and then come up with a plan to get to the next stage or out of the transition completely..
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